I did a 20 swipe left and someone commented about a swipe right post. That never crossed my mind, which I find sad lol. These are all personal preferences but I figured some people might relate so why not?
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Clean shaven
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Good teeth / nice smile
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Outdoor nature pics
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Dog pics
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Tall(er than me)
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Strong jawline
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Mentions or pictures of a career path (we want someone with goals)
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They have a cute/fun laughing pic
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Their profile mentions Mexican food /sushi
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A bio that shows a sense of humor
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Strong possibility he doesn’t live at home (definitely not a dealbreaker at my age, but a strong bonus)
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Pictures with friends that are not at a bar (shows you don’t go out partying every weekend)
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Pictures with family
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They seem down to earth / humble
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They like country music
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They clean up well in a suit (not necessary for a profile, but hey it’s nice on the eyes)
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You can see they put in some effort, but aren’t desperate
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They seem smart and would carry a conversation (spelling helps, guys)
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They seem athletic or active (they don’t spend every minute in front of a TV, hello COVID-19)
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Honestly, it’s just a vibe I feel of if I could get along with the guy or not.
Thank you for sharing.
So I’m very curious after reading your great post what your reaction would be to the post that my wife answered on Match.Com in 1998. No photo, three lines about me and after four days of going through a ream of paper writing emails we met for our first meeting coffee at 2 p.m.that turned into an effort to see Titanic at 4 p.m. with it showing in four theaters but no tickets until 8 p.m., Wife wiped out her cell phone and confirmed tickets 25 miles away near her place, wen to dinner walked around Old town Auburn CA. parked 45 minutes early at the show, got friendly, held hands through the movie. Talked and steamed up the windows afterward until 2 a.m. Was invited for dinner the next night. And thus began what has been 22 years together – NOW – your impression and reaction to my profile headline – “Stoplight Kisser, Seeking Kissee” Would really love to know? I won the lotto of love with her. Best four words I have ever written!! LOL!! Super post Bellissimo, My Dear!! Would love to hear your thoughts – chucklindholm@hotmail.com
Great sorry. Good on your missus for throwing the checklist out of the window and going with her gut
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Great post but epitomises everything that’s wrong with online dating. Really, the only things that matters ultimately is pt 20, the feeling. I’ve often thought I could have swiped past the one, because he couldn’t present himself in an instantly captivating manner, when in reality the ones that do are invariably good at this shit because they are players looking for the next bait.