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Dating Blog By On March 22, 2018

March Advice Column

Dear Dateable, What makes for good first date conversation aside from the usual work/school/family prattle? DD:You want to keep a first date light and although talking about tv show and movies may seem silly you can learn a lot about a person’s immaturity level and sense of humor by what they put on their screens. You can also find common…

Dating Blog By On February 26, 2018

Love on a Budget

I think people often mistake expensive dates for romance. You don’t have to a fancy restaurant every weekend, in fact idea number one is Cook In instead of dining out. Yes usually grocery shopping is more expensive than just one evening dining out but the food you get can be used for multiple meals so at the end of the…

Poetry By On February 22, 2018

Cold Weather

I know we fight I know we don’t always get it right I’m sorry I didn’t pick up your calls It’s just that my mind was going crazy inside these walls I’ve never had someone mean so much to me Being this vulnerable can make me a little uneasy Even if I cry, just know I always want to try…

Poetry By On February 4, 2018

Forest Fire

You talk about her and it lights a forest fire of destruction in my heart my immediate reaction is to mention him so you might feel a lick of the pain I’m in. It doesn’t make it any better when you speak ill of her with so much emotion in your voice, i can still feel her claws deep in…

Poetry By On January 27, 2018

The Parasite

I’m not sure why you still talk about her Can’t you see that it hurts me? You haven’t spoken to her in months but yet Here she is again in our conversation In your mind and in mine I feel like she has a permanent place inside of you Inside our relationship. I feel crazy for not being able to…

Dating Blog By On January 25, 2018

Are Crazy Exes a Myth?

Now I’m not saying that crazy exes don’t exist, because they totally do. I’m just saying you need to acknowledge the role you play when it comes to stirring the crazy. For example, Stubborn drove me crazy. Just like anyone would go crazy by being tempted by the thing you so desperately want just out of reach. Your thoughts can…

Dating Blog By On January 19, 2018

Dating Expectations (The Learning Curve)

For those well versed in dating apps and the modern dating world, you probably are familiar with how much expectations can mess with a date. I went on many first dates but second dates were few and far in between. And when I did agree to a second date with a decent guy and good conversation, it usually tanked horribly!…

Poetry By On January 17, 2018

Bobby Pins

Blonde Bobby pins litter my black dresser like stars across tonight’s chilled autumn sky. Another reminder that she is truly mine kissed her for hours because I hate goodbyes. I joke around about all the things she leaves at my place but my love grows for her and she keeps filling up the space in my heart so she is…