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Poetry By On September 13, 2017

I Outgrew You

There is no ghost of you in my bed He left to fill her sheets just like you did So don’t hit me up late night wanting me to fix you You choose your words carefully Every line directed at her Peppered with your vulnerable desire I am not her stand in, I am not your second choice. -June 2017

Dating Blog By On September 5, 2017

Second Choice

I’ve talked before about ways to know if you’re wasting your time on a guy or not. These guys, for a variety of reasons, are emotionally unavailable. Of course, it’s never so black and white, instead he’s more open and available some weeks or some nights and you think you’ve finally gotten through to him. And then he’s back to…

Poetry By On August 31, 2017

Love You, Love Me Not

I could love you if you let me but you keep me outside your heart my fingertips stroke at the pulse of your vulnerability No, I guess you’re keeping your heart safe for someone else My thoughts race for hours stirring up all the ways I don’t measure up I’d drown in self doubt if Sleep didn’t take mercy on…

Dating Blog By On May 10, 2017

The Dating Curse

I think most daters consider themselves cursed in someway, whether it’s the fact they have so many first dates and rarely make it to the second or they say the conversation of moving in together always ends in breaking things off. I, myself, am cursed. Every time I start liking a guy and decide it’s time to delete my dating…

Dating Blog By On February 22, 2017

Why You Can’t Be Friends With Your Ex

When a relationship ends rather amicably, it makes it harder to really sever the ties. For my situation with Mr. Right, it was a logical decision to end things, not an emotional one. So it took longer for the emotions to align with our minds. It’s confusing trying to be friends with your ex. You read into conversations more, rethink…

Dating Blog By On February 13, 2017

I’d be a Really Good Girlfriend

In honor of Valentine’s Day tomorrow, I want to talk about how great of a girlfriend I would be. That sounds soo conceited and I feel insanely weird for making this post but if I have to embarrass myself just for one person to have a good take away from this article then I’ll do it. And its good to…

Dating Blog By On February 4, 2017

Sometimes it’s Just not Meant to be

So there was this guy I once had a crush on and it lasted many, many years. Nothing ever really happened so there isn’t much of a beginning to talk about but there is an End. We got in a fight because I felt the friendship was very one sided and I was probably also jealous of this girl he…

Poetry By On January 5, 2017

For Me

I dont know why I cry for you Fairytales would have me think it’s because I love you But I know they’re for me Grieving or relieving, I’m not sure yet   -October 2016 Photo Credit

Poetry By On January 2, 2017

That’s Me

I’m always on the run chasing guys who don’t like me or fleeing from the ones who do. If I could just slow down I might see that I’ve already got all that I need and that’s Me.   -November 2016 Photo Credit

Dating Blog By On December 3, 2016

Step Up or Step Away

So there was this girl and her friend introduced her to this guy. And they would talk all night, every night. They went on dates all the time, their favorite being the movie theater. They dated for a few months but it was still pretty new when friends of the girl started hearing that the guy was still talking to…