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Dating Blog By On November 15, 2016

The Update

I hope most of you are reading this because you read yesterday’s blog post and decided to check back for the update! He said… No to me but I said… Yes (to myself)! The first time I ask it’s still kind of vague. I ask if he’ll take me out some time this month. I don’t really say where, when,…

Dating Blog By On November 14, 2016

What’s the Worst that Could Happen? He Says No?

Some days, I’m comfortable with this half –in, half –out relationship with Stubborn. Other days, I’m at my wits end with it and want to give up now and cut my losses. So why am I not willing to rock the boat? Right now the most I’m even willing to ask him is to run errands, grab coffee, or just hang…

Dating Blog By On November 1, 2016

Comfort in the Distance

So I’ve mentioned Stubborn before and I can definitely agree to telling any girl that if a guy doesn’t put in the effort to take you on dates then he’s not into you and you gotta forget him. People rarely take their own advice though. I’m comfortable where I am with Stubborn. You know in kindergarten when you’re learning about personal…

Dating Blog By On October 27, 2016

Head Vs. Heart

I went from nearly one extreme to the other. First, I talked to Mr. Can’t Get Ov3r You, who started out as fun and easy. It was all just texting and it didn’t cross my mind to even consider meeting up with him till 4 months later. We met in April, the non-date coffee date lasted twice as long as…

Poetry By On October 16, 2016

I’m a Book Worth Reading

Most times I wish you would just leave Do for me what I can’t seem to do for myself Like a book you know you should read But it never leaves its place on the shelf I don’t know why you keep me around if only at a distance.   -September 2016 Photo Credit  

Poetry By On October 7, 2016

Desire’s Fire

I don’t think I ask too much of you But you can’t or won’t give me what I desire So it makes me feel needy and clingy Like I’m the only one burning in this fire.   -September 2016 Photo Credit  

Dating Blog By On October 1, 2016

Just Friends

In one of our many fights where I tried to get out of this half -in, half -out, half -ass relationship, I demoted (or properly label) our ‘relationship’ to texting buddies. Stubborn would (yes, you guessed it) stubbornly tell me that we are friends (as if that would make me feel better). That particular label really rubbed me the wrong way…

Dating Blog By On September 22, 2016

The First Lesson I Learned While Dating

I actually learned a few lessons from the first guy who took me out (it gets confusing if I say I dated him because he was never my boyfriend, we just went on dates for a month or two). I’ve decided to nickname him Liar since most of what I’ve learned from him has to do with lies and betrayal….

Dating Blog By On September 13, 2016

Do You Date the Guy You Know You Won’t Marry?

If you’re in a crunch and don’t have time to read, the short answer is No.   I mean yes, sure you could date him as long as you both know the deal: that it will eventually end so that you can each marry someone else (if you happen to choose that marriage is for you). But that leads to…