Dating Blog By On April 1, 2020

I’m only giving the energy that I receive

Since I’m back in the dating game I’ve embraced a new philosophy of only giving out the same energy that I’m receiving. I’m tired of chasing after guys and tired of continuing to talk to guys who aren’t giving me the love and respect I deserve. So if you don’t answer my text for 4 days, guess when you’re getting…

Poetry By On March 30, 2020

 I’LL ALWAYS TRY TO REACH YOU  

I don’t know where you go  when you’re away from me. One minute you’re here  and the next  there’s a mile wide wall between us  built with pebbles and stones  of misplaced anger and insecurity. I test the wall’s strength with jokes and try to chip away at the concrete with sweet words and a reassuring hand.

Poetry By On March 27, 2020

WE ARE DIFFERENT BUT ARE WE EQUAL? 

You have shaped me. I am brash to combat your meekness. Your strength is so quiet  I sometimes discredit its perseverance. Mine is hot and loud. But there are times the flames  can dwindle so low I’m not even sure they’re even there. Even so, I’ve made sure your silence  will never be in my library of responses.

Blogger By On March 25, 2020

March Playlist – Newly Single

If you’re Newly Single, I’m here for you girl!! It’s time to hit the bar and break some hearts!! Let’s jam out!!! (click on the years to be taken to the music videos!)   1.Miss Me More (2017) Kelsea Ballerini sings about the changes she made to make her boyfriend happy in their relationship. She’s facing the fears and worries…

Poetry By On March 23, 2020

UNLEASHED TONGUE 

I have no qualms about speaking up when your politeness squeezes your throat. I will make your voice heard to those dressing you up with their own ideals. I may approach a subject as delicate as a bull charging red but I am on your side even if I do not share your finesse.

Poetry By On March 20, 2020

SHORTCOMINGS

You’ll need to have enough patience  for two because I’m always losing mine.  Sometimes I’ll pull out my hair from all the stress. I can’t always keep my cool  so I’ll clam up in frustration  fearful that I could shout something I’d regret.   I think being late is a sign of disrespect  and I don’t like to change my…

Dating Blog By On March 18, 2020

When Are You Going to Get Married?

I’ve finally hit the age where the first wave of engagements and babies is coming, and boy is it strong! Especially with the holidays where everyone is really feeling the spirit of family, there was a new social media post every week! I’m so happy for all my school friends and people from my local community that are starting new…

Poetry By On March 16, 2020

LITTLE GIRL LOOKING UP TO YOU

She taped a note to my lunchbox,  “I love you, Be a Good Little Girl”.  Day after day, year after year, always the same. But he isn’t listening again. She shakes her head but does not move her lips. Listen closely, this is when she is saying the most. It is when she keeps quiet  instead of telling him what…

Poetry By On March 13, 2020

Are you going to stay this time?

I tried to avoid this Barricading the door. But I let you in through the window anyway. You left just as silently as you came. Two years later you’re knocking again But I can’t get hurt this time.