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Dating Blog By On September 9, 2020

The hardest lesson in dating

The hardest lesson you learn while in various relationships is this: You can’t change people.   While you’re young you might have made a list of your ideal partner. Then you started meeting suitors and you realized the perfect partner doesn’t exist. You meet a guy with some potential but you’re both still young and growing your careers. You can’t…

Dating Blog By On July 29, 2020

How to get over someone

Getting over someone is tough. There’s no right way to do it but we tend to beat ourselves up over it anyway. Here are some ideas that could help you move on after heartbreak. And we all know getting over someone you never actually dated is the hardest so I hope this helps there!   1. Stop talking to them…

Dating Blog By On July 22, 2020

July Playlist – Want You Back

  1.Come Back Song (2010) Darius Rucker starts off with a clever analogy of his morning coffee and the end of his relationship. He’s willing to admit he was wrong for ending the relationship and that she is doing well without him. The night seems to hit the hardest, missing her as he tries to fall asleep alone. He hopes…

Dating Blog By On July 8, 2020

How can I trust myself to pick the right guy?

Over the past 5 years, I’ve been on tons of first dates. More than any person would ever want to, I’m sure. I kept going on first dates though because I was ‘picky’. I needed a palpable connection and a list of criteria to be met. It was meaningless first date after first date when I finally met my long…

Dating Blog By On June 24, 2020

June Playlist – Break Up

  1.Make You Miss Me (2014) Sam Hunt immediately starts explaining this wishy-washy personality of a girl he’s dating or talking to. She always wants the newest things and is quick to ditch when the next big thing rolls around. Sam doesn’t deny the break up but he is convinced she caught feelings and will miss him. She won’t be…

Dating Blog By On June 10, 2020

How are you still single?

When you’re out in the dating world, a time or two you’ll probably hear this: How do you not have a boyfriend already? (normally continued with ‘you’re so great’) I’m not sure if it’s my history with self esteem or if everyone feels this way, but this question definitely gives me pause. I think this phrase could be termed as…

Dating Blog By On May 29, 2020

May Playlist – Longing

1.My eyes adored you (1974)  Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons bring you this song that still pulls at the heart strings decades later. This is a song that adores a woman from afar. Childhood friends that grew up together but never showed their romantic feelings. Frankie Valli even sings of reaching fame but still thinking of the devotion he…

Dating Blog By On May 27, 2020

Should you give advice to failed daters?

I’ve been on LOTS of first dates over the years and after a while they can really start to just blur together. But a few stick out to me and one is this guy who I went out to dinner with. During dinner I realized he wouldn’t be a match for me but after dinner we ended up taking my…

Dating Blog By On April 22, 2020

April Playlist – Crush

  1.Something to Talk About (1991) Bonnie Riatt sings of a friends to lovers storyline as the town begins to suspect romance brewing among these friends. These rumors have Bonnie evaluating her friendship and realizing she has caught feelings for her friend!   2.Losing Control (2015)   Russ’s song is about a girl catching feelings but worried she’ll only get…