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Poetry By On July 3, 2020

responsibility

I’m tired of having to convince you that I don’t care too much. I remember your birthday and your brother’s name  but that’s no reason to put up such a fight.   I can decide if I want my own heart broken. You don’t need to protect me from yourself. Take me off your heavy shoulders  I’ll be my own…

Poetry By On June 22, 2020

Rose Colored

You’re looking for love everywhere  except right in front of you. You’ve already made up your mind and that makes love so hard to find. So many ideas of what should be you’re blind to what could be.

Dating Blog By On June 10, 2020

How are you still single?

When you’re out in the dating world, a time or two you’ll probably hear this: How do you not have a boyfriend already? (normally continued with ‘you’re so great’) I’m not sure if it’s my history with self esteem or if everyone feels this way, but this question definitely gives me pause. I think this phrase could be termed as…

Dating Blog By On May 29, 2020

May Playlist – Longing

1.My eyes adored you (1974)  Frankie Valli and the Four Seasons bring you this song that still pulls at the heart strings decades later. This is a song that adores a woman from afar. Childhood friends that grew up together but never showed their romantic feelings. Frankie Valli even sings of reaching fame but still thinking of the devotion he…

Dating Blog By On May 27, 2020

Should you give advice to failed daters?

I’ve been on LOTS of first dates over the years and after a while they can really start to just blur together. But a few stick out to me and one is this guy who I went out to dinner with. During dinner I realized he wouldn’t be a match for me but after dinner we ended up taking my…

Dating Blog By On April 22, 2020

April Playlist – Crush

  1.Something to Talk About (1991) Bonnie Riatt sings of a friends to lovers storyline as the town begins to suspect romance brewing among these friends. These rumors have Bonnie evaluating her friendship and realizing she has caught feelings for her friend!   2.Losing Control (2015)   Russ’s song is about a girl catching feelings but worried she’ll only get…

Dating Blog By On April 1, 2020

I’m only giving the energy that I receive

Since I’m back in the dating game I’ve embraced a new philosophy of only giving out the same energy that I’m receiving. I’m tired of chasing after guys and tired of continuing to talk to guys who aren’t giving me the love and respect I deserve. So if you don’t answer my text for 4 days, guess when you’re getting…

Dating Blog By On March 4, 2020

Why I like being single for now

Relationships are great and I know in time I will look forward to being in one again. But right now, there is a lot of enjoyment of being single! It’s a lot less stress for me to be single and here’s all the ways that’s true.   I saved a ton of money on gifts this holiday season. Let’s be…

Poetry By On February 10, 2020

Detached

I keep it light and easy Don’t want to seem so clingy so I’ll reach out to another girl with you in the back of my mind. I try to let all your excuses  roll off my back. But maybe you’re too complicated for any attachments. I sure know how to waste my time.     -Nov 2019