Kiss me
I want to forget
that you’re no good for me.
I know I should let
the memories of you stay dead
But they taste so sweet
on my lips
just like your kiss.
-Oct 2019
Kiss me
I want to forget
that you’re no good for me.
I know I should let
the memories of you stay dead
But they taste so sweet
on my lips
just like your kiss.
-Oct 2019
Halloween is the perfect time to cut loose and have some fun! It’s a night you’ve planned with your friends and have spent weeks finding the right costume. Now it’s time to find the right boo! It’s empowering and can be a good way to escape the regular day to day stress to spend the night with someone.
The easiest way you’ll probably find someone to get spooky with will be at the party you’re going to with your friends. You’ve already mentally prepared yourself for a night of partying and having fun so you will be more open to mingling. You’ll have even more options since even the workalcoholics will be out partying for this holiday.
In a relationship many factors of a personality will make someone more attractive than just their looks. But when you’re looking to hook up, looks matter. So make sure your hair is looking good and you’re wearing one of your best outfits (or costume lol).
You very well can’t find someone to go home with if no one even knows you’re there! Flirt, laugh, and dance to turn some heads. Catch some eyes by taking a look around the crowd not just your phone and drink. Plus you want to see what options you’re working with here. There’s no need to play hard to get and coy, you’re going after what you want tonight.
There are plenty of people looking for the same type of fun as you are so just be honest! If someone isn’t interested then cut your losses and move on. Don’t dance around each other, just ask your place or mine? Let them know what level of vulnerability you’re comfortable with to make sure both parties have a fun but safe time.
The bar scene may not be for you but with this day and age dating apps can bring the party to you. It’s an easy way to meet people without having to waste the time and energy of going out to a party. There are plenty of well known apps for just hooking up and it may be time to get your feet wet.
I could kiss you all day long
but I never want to kiss you goodbye.
We could spend the whole day together
or the whole week but when it’s time to leave
it’s like we were never together long enough.
Just another minute or hour, I plead.
Tell me I’ll see you again later this week.
-Sept 2017
If you are tired
Let me lay you down
My hands will murmur soft lullabies
into your hair.
If my feet grow weak
You can carry me.
If the wind and the rain
make you shiver
I’ll shelter you from any storm.
They see me alone and hungry
But only you satisfy my every need
And I’ll be there for you
as you are there for me.
Paying in kisses and gentle words
Take from me as often as you give.
-Aug 2017
On the boardwalk
The salty air stirring my hair
The soft rain pitter -pattering
and waves crashing
Like a background radio.
My hands danced up your torso
You squeezed my hip
And kissed me like I’m yours.
-Aug 2017
I stare at your hand as you drive
butterflies crawling up my throat
I know you dangle your hand between us
as a silent invitation for me
so sweet but yet still I’m scared
because I’ve been turned away
and left behind enough to mar my skin in burning scars.
But you break through my thoughts and these aged walls
with a gentle hand on my knee you soothe my burning
and I wish to lean across the seat and kiss thank yous
on your neck but for now my fingertips do the talking.
-Aug 2017
There’s not exactly a set time, but there is definitely a window from date number two to date number four with the sweet spot being at the end of two or three. Timing is super important here. You want to make sure a connection is there before jumping the gun.
Trust me there is nothing worst than going in for a kiss too soon.
If a woman isn’t ready for that kind of intimacy than you only seem disrespectful and aggressive and that’s a sure-fire way to sink your chances with her. You can gage how ready your potential suitor might be by starting with casual touches such as shoulder brushing and a brief hand on the arm. If that seems to go well then you might lean in more during conversation or sit closer so you both might get used to each other in your personal space. From there, more frequent touching, hand holding, and hugging will help build the physical connection. It’s totally normal for it to feel a little uncomfortable from the new sensation and the nervous butterflies, so there’s no need to rush any physical contact.
That’s why it can take two to four dates in order to establish this connection and build up to the first kiss. You both want to be thinking about and craving this kind of intimacy. Of course, everyone moves at a different pace and just like the possibility of moving too fast, there is also the mistake of moving too slow. If you wait too long, he may think you’re not really interested in him romantically. You’ll go from potential dater to friend and watch as he turns his focus to other girls to pursue romantically.
When I first began dating, I obviously had a lot less experience and because of that I definitely did not want a kiss on the first date. I thought it was too soon and if a guy tried I thought it meant he was disingenuous. That was nearly three-year ago now and it wasn’t really until a couple of months ago that I changed my mind on first date kisses.
I still believe the second date is probably better and more popular but as long as I am forming a connection and climbing the ladder of physical contact then I’ve become more accepting of first date kissing. As long as your partner and you feel comfortable, than you can move at whatever pace you want and change that pace when you want!
On a bench you put your arm around my shoulder
with your thumb tracing the intimate touch on the back of my neck
the soft lapping of water as it kisses the dock cocoons us in this moment
I watch my fingers dance from your hip to your knee
were both building up the courage to go after what we so deeply need.
our bodies humming with shouts of yes but my breathe is as still as prey in the wild
And then you strike, so sweet in your killing.
your delicious taste on my lips as you tug them closer.
and when you pull away I can’t help the plea in my mind
that begs to know how soon I can be killed again.
-Aug 2017
I love the way you feel that’s why I’m on full body contact press
the way your lips flutter up the side of my neck
and the fire when your teeth sink into my bottom lip
your hand caressing my collar bone before digging into the thick of my hair
my hands move like clockwork from your hips to your ribs to the easing curve
of your neck to the heat of your chest and back again
until there isn’t an inch I have touched.
-Aug 2017